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My business died today, and last year, and the year before
Dec 14, 2023
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October 2023

There must be another way
It's you, Alexa, I know it
Oct 22, 2023
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The pace of the day
Proof that I still know how to explore the ridiculous
Oct 2, 2023

August 2023

Seeing yourself through new eyes
Brunch update, new headshots, and changing your identity
Aug 18, 2023
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So, you seemed nice 20 years ago
Tales from planning the world's most chaotic brunch
Aug 10, 2023 • 
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Today's Selfish Advice
Send yourself a calendar invite for finding the meaning of life
Aug 2, 2023
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June 2023

I'm deleting the apps again
Musings on the fact that none of us appear to have found The One
Jun 28, 2023 • 
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June Glow Up: Day 6
Because why? We like to be seen trying.
Jun 6, 2023 • 
Alexa Shoen
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May 2023

Rose, bud, thorn
Let's take a casual little life audit and see how things are going
May 2, 2023 • 
Alexa Shoen
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April 2023

"Why can't you walk to the coffee shop?"
On the gap between the America in the movies and the America at home
Apr 11, 2023 • 
Alexa Shoen
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March 2023

Qs I get asked in airports
LHR >> JFK, one-way, moving home
Mar 11, 2023 • 
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One-way flight
Good morning from Brooklyn en route California
Mar 9, 2023 • 
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